Divorce Doesn’t Mean Unloved
Going through a divorce was one of the toughest times in my life. I felt like my world was falling apart, and I was drowning in a sea of emotions. But that’s when I turned to Jesus, and His love became my anchor.
At first, I was so focused on my pain and anger that I couldn’t see beyond it. I blamed my ex for everything and saw myself as the victim. But when I started praying and spending time with Jesus, something shifted. I felt His peace wash over me, calming the storm inside.
Jesus’ love reminded me that I was not alone and that I was still worthy of love. He helped me see my own faults and take responsibility for my actions. It wasn’t just about what my ex did wrong; it was about how I could grow and heal from this experience.
I started to let go of the need for validation and vindication. Instead, I focused on forgiveness and understanding. Jesus taught me to approach the situation with grace and compassion, not just for my ex but for myself too. It wasn’t easy, but it was necessary.
Through Jesus, I found the strength to make better decisions during the divorce process. I avoided bad-mouthing my ex, kept our children out of the conflict, and refrained from airing our issues on social media. I realized that the way I handled the divorce would impact not just me, but everyone around me.
Most importantly, Jesus’ love helped me see that both my ex and I were hurting and needed emotional support. We both needed to start with Jesus, who loved us both unconditionally. His love became the foundation for my healing and growth, and it continues to guide me every day.