Feeling “Canceled”?
Feeling “Canceled”? Jesus Dined with Disciples Who Were Outcasts
Ever felt the sting of rejection? Maybe you’ve made some choices that others just don’t get, and now it feels like you’re being iced out. Family, friends, and even colleagues stop inviting you to hangouts, avoid you in social settings, and ignore your calls. It’s rough, but you’re definitely not alone.
Think about the disciples of Jesus. A lot of them were total outcasts. Matthew was a tax collector, and people hated him for it. Simon the Zealot was part of a radical political group. James and John, the sons of Zebedee, were just fishermen, a job that wasn’t exactly glamorous. Peter, another fisherman, was known for being impulsive and unreliable.
But Jesus didn’t just accept these guys; He genuinely loved them and brought them into His inner circle. He ate with them, taught them, and trusted them to spread His message. This shows that Jesus’ love isn’t just for the socially revered. It’s for everyone, especially those who feel rejected and left out.
When people freeze you out, it can go beyond just ignoring your calls. They might give you the silent treatment, avoid eye contact, or even spread rumors about you. These actions can make you feel isolated and unworthy. But remember, your worth isn’t based on society’s treatment, but on Jesus’ love for you.
Jesus’ actions remind us that our value comes from His love, not from the approval of others. When you feel rejected, remember that Jesus understands and values you deeply. His love is a powerful reminder that you are never truly alone.
On the flip side, if you’re the one who has ghosted someone, take a lesson from the prodigal son. It’s never too late to reach out, apologize, and make amends. You might be surprised at the grace and love you receive in return.
So, next time you’re feeling left out, think about the disciples’ journey. Despite their low social status, they were chosen and loved by Jesus. This clearly shows that our worth isn’t defined by societal standards but by the unconditional love of Jesus. When you feel the pain of being excluded, take comfort in knowing that you are valued and loved beyond measure.
Scripture: Matthew 9:10-13, Isaiah 56:8, Psalm 147:2, Romans 5:8